trader in love
trader in love
As a Trader in Love you use your energy to enjoy life, being YOU, in all your lovely facets.
A Trader in Love shapes his life knowing:
” LOVE = ENERGY!”
A Trader in Love particularly loves to seriously play with the concept of love using this definition.
The Trader in Love is practising the use of love (which equals energy!) ever since you were born.
Every day, he practises investing his energy in things that appeal to him, things he feels that will re-energize him.
Since love = energy, he invests his love in beneficial activities. He trades love, he gets love in return plus satisfaction: the lovely bonus of completing his transactions.
The Trader in Love has a passion for making Sound Energetic Transactions and loves experimenting with being actively on the lookout for any occasion where he can exchange love with love ( energy with vibrant energy). Doing what he loves doing pays off in receiving what he loves receiving and the process is a joy too!
He finds it a joy to challenge his abilities to increase the amount of Energetic Sound Transactions in all situations.
Being a Trader in Love is fun. Being a Trader in Love is instantly rewarding. Being a Trader in Love is his life.
A Trader in Love chooses to do the things he likes doing in order to keep his energy levels up. He trades in Love. Love = energy, so energy is his stock of love. He doesn’t want to run out of energy, because than he can’t trade in it anymore.
The only thing he then wants to do is sleep. Which he loves, because it re-energises, so he has a supply again of love/energy to invest....
But he prefers to have and create a constant stream of love/energy during the day, because then he feels he is really alive and making a contribution
He knows how he can achieve that. Making Energetic Sound Transactions!
You can be a Trader in Love
The fact that the Trader in Love is practising his Transactions ever since you were born is no coincidence. It’s because it’s a metaphor for YOU.
You have this beautiful body, mind and soul to make any satisfying Transaction with, wherever you want, however you want, literally and as a figure of speech.
If you find life amazingly beautiful, full of joy, fulfilling and you feel happy and confident about the steps you take, you are probably a conscious Trader in Love.
But maybe you feel that your life is not joyfully moving from one satisfying experience to the next? Do you feel ‘ stuck and stale’ and you are not happy with it........?
If the latter is the case and you feel attracted to being a Trader in Love, then ask yourself this:“ Am I investing my energy in things I love? Do I make as many Energetic Sound Transactions as I can? “
If that is not yet the case...
Do you feel, in this very moment reading these lines, restless movements in your diaphragm?
Could it be that the Trader in Love in you is , right as we speak, sending you some loving energy, shaped as an invitation to work together. Do you feel he’s eager to share everything he knows about love ( = energy) with you, if you love that idea (= you want to invest your energy in the cooperation too)?
You can love your life! All it takes is investing you energy in the things you love .
Are you worried:” But I can’t just do whatever I love doing... I have to invest time and energy in things I don’t like at all too” or “ I don’t have a clue on what it is that I really love doing!” ?
Or are you slightly exited and curious:” Do you really think that I can learn to trade in love, invest my energy in making Energetic Sound Transactions and enjoy the things you love freely and happily too?”
If a part of you is indeed curious and you want to look into it some more... take a deep breath, say to your inner Trader in Love that you love being a Trader in Love and you are making your first step cooperating as a Traders in Love, in a conscious Energetic Sound Transaction.
It may feel wobbly at first, but you can rest at any time you like. If you practise every day, for the amount of time you like, consciously investing your energy ( = love) in things you love doing, you will increase your abilities to see more options for making Energetic Sound Transactions, shaping your life in freedom, with love.
The investments and benefits of your love in this world will be more and more enchanting and other people will be pleased to watch it, or will even join you in being a Trader in Love.
Being a Trader in Love, making Energetic Sound Transactions, pays off in joy and happiness, wherever you decide to go.
Would you like to play with the tools a Trader in Love uses, every day?
The tools a Trader in Love enjoys to play with:
The Trader in Love has a preference to use every day the tool of ‘ love’ .
According to the Trader in Love: “LOVE = ENERGY”
He knows that all it takes is to decide consciously how and where to invest his energy ( = love) in. If it is in something he really loves, done in an Energetic Sound way ( lovingly) the energy flows freely back to him.
There are two important approaches you might like to use too:
love suggestion 1: Chose the ‘ right’ contract
A Trader in Love understands that there is no ‘right’ or ‘ wrong’. What is ‘ right’ for somebody in a given situation, may be unsuitable to another, or even unsuitable for the same person in an other situation.
From this understanding he chooses to invest his energy in things that serve his needs and desires.
Some people chose to invest their energy in things they don’t like doing at all. They feel the need to live up to a contract of doing the ‘ right’ thing. That is usually a fixed set of ideas about the ‘ do’s and don’ts’ in life. Passed on from generation to generation, altered and evolved over time.
If doing the ‘ right’ thing, behaving conform the fixed set of values, suits you down to the ground ....then doing things you don’t particularly enjoy doing, may very well suit you. It’s a paradox. But if your need to ‘ fit in’ is priority.. then the need for free choice steps aside. It’s in the nature of ‘free choice’ to accept any choice, understanding there is no absolute ‘ right’ or ‘ wrong’ .
There is just ‘ what serves you’ .
If ‘ fitting in’ serves you.. then you will invest your energy in activities that match ‘ fitting in’ and doing the ‘ right’ thing.
If you prefer to have more freedom in your choices, free choice in the energy trade is what serves you... then you may want to keep an eye on the contracts you have signed in the past. Commitments you have made, energy you still invest, rules you still ‘ love’ , even if they don’t serve you.
At takes a lot of courage to say :” I am a free Trader in Love”, mean that you feel free to make any choice that serves your deepest core and act upon it, by investing your time and energy in the things you really LOVE.
Many people have committed themselves in the course of their lives to these contracts:
I am ‘ wrong’ , for my need to survive if I do what others ask of me and keep my mouth shut about my own needs. Other people take care of me.
I am ‘ right’, for my need to survive, I’ll tell others what to do. I take care of myself.
In order to survive, I need to prove to others that I am ‘ right’. I try hard to make things happen.
If you trade your energy conform this contract, that’s what you’ll get. Send = receive in the Universe.
As a Trader in Love, you don’t have to take care, or let people take care of you.. but you might like to trade in care! An equal Transaction....
You like to make up your own mind about something? Then trade that equally and allow other people their freedom to make up their own mind about something too! Trying hard to prove how ‘ right’ something or somebody ( yourself for instance) is, is then a rather pointless action. Safe your energy for trading it in Sound Transactions !
Does it feel wobbly, at times, to trust that making Energetic Sound Transactions is serving you down to the ground? Do you feel the desire for a fixed set of ideas on how to do the ‘ right’ thing as a Trader in Love.....other then say ‘ yes’, mean ‘ yes’, do ‘ yes’?
By all means: create your own!
You are a Trader in Love, self employed, you can write your own contract!
Invest some energy in the contract you really want to close with yourself. Write anything down that you would love to invest your energy in and, whilst you’re at it, write down what type of love/energy you would like to receive.
If you can’t remember to witch contracts you have unconsciously subscribed to, begin every new contract with the line:” With this contract I withdraw any previous conflicting contract . “
Then add items:
“ I am a Trader in Love ( or whatever you would like to call yourself!)
As from today, I chose to invest my time and energy in the following things I love doing:.......”
“ In being happy and confident about who I am, I achieve all the things I love: a good health, a nice place to live in, etc. etc....”
Knowing that you have freedom of choice, as a Trader in Love, simply gives you the opportunity to express what you want, mean it at that time and in the following moments, you can act upon it.
Making this Energetically Sound Transaction with yourself frees your love to flow in the desired direction.
Some people call these contracts ‘affirmations’. It’s the same. You express what you choose to be, you mean that that is what you choose and part of the deal is that you will be presented with opportunities to be precisely what you chose to be. Act upon it and complete the cycle of another Energetic Sound Transaction.
With the freedom of choice, you can withdraw and create contracts whenever you want.
Every morning, looking into the day and designing a contract for that day, helps a Trader in Love to invest his energy for that day wisely.
Obviously, a Trader in Love will always inform other people when he changes his mind about investing time and energy in something if it has practical consequences for others!
Promise ‘ yes’, switch your opinion to mean ‘no’ and do ‘ no’ is not the type of Transaction a Trader in Love likes to be a part of. Neither on the receiving end, nor on the sending end.
Not because it is ‘ wrong’.. but because it doesn’t serve him to move into the desired direction... feeling energised!
love suggestion 2: I’ve got what it takes
When a Trader in Love finds himself in difficult situations that are costing him more energy than he has available, he knows where lies the key.
He needs to invest some love ( energy) in looking at his current Transactions. Apparently, he is ‘running out of stock’ , more love/energy is going out than is coming in.
Just like with any other person who sees his stock decrease below a certain level, it may lead to worries. Will the market pick up? Am I doing the right thing here? Do I have what it takes?
Begin at the end (“ Do I have what it takes”?) and look careful into ‘ it’ .
Do I have what being a Trader in Love takes? Do I have what being me takes?
Say yes to these questions, mean it and you are doing the right thing ( make an Energetic Sound Transaction) so your energy levels will go up again.
Doubts if you can mean it? If you are still alive, you are still the person you refer to as ‘ me’ with enough energy to trade with yourself, you invest in yourself... a.k.a. love yourself.
You have got what it takes! You can feel and analyze what is missing right now! You can stop what you were doing and make a change into the desired direction!