As a Bright Star Pilot you use your energy to see life from a various perspectives, free as a bird.
A Bright Star Pilot shapes his life knowing: ”Playing is a great way to find out how flying works” A Bright Star Pilot particularly loves to seriously play with Playfulness.
The Bright Star Pilot is practising his flying abilities ever since you were born. Every day, he practises all the skills he needs for handling his aircraft: do all necessary checks, taking off, climbing higher, turning in all directions and getting back on the ground safely, regardless of the circumstances he flies in. The Bright Star Pilot has a passion for flying and loves experimenting with his airplanes. He finds it a joy to challenge his abilities to play with it; being adventurously in control of speed and direction, high in the sky. Being a Bright Star Pilot is fun. Being a Bright Star Pilot is instantly rewarding. Being a Bright Star Pilot is his life.
You can be a Bright Star Pilot
The fact that the Bright Star Pilot is practising his moves ever since you were born is no coincidence. It’s because it’s a metaphor for YOU. You have this beautiful body, mind and soul to move wherever you want, however you want, literally and as a figure of speech. If you find life amazingly beautiful, full of opportunities and rewarding and you feel happy and confident about the steps you take, you are probably a Bright Star Pilot. But maybe you feel that your life is not moving anywhere, or constantly in the same pattern to the same tune? Do you feel ‘ stuck and stale’ and you are not happy with it........? If the latter is the case and you feel attracted to being a Bright Star Pilot, then ask yourself this:“ Am I playful? Do I feel I can fly and experience adventures in my life, being in control of speed and direction? “ If that is not yet the case... Do you feel, in this very moment reading these lines, restless movements in your diaphragm? Could it be that the Bright Star Pilot in you is , right as we speak, pressing some buttons in the cockpit, eager to lift of and learn to fly freely and happily? You can ‘ fly’ through your life! All it takes is playing with height, speed and directions. Are you worried:” I can’t fly!” or “ I don’t know where to begin!” or “ Playing and flying seems a hazardous combination to me!” Or are you slightly exited and curious:” Do you really think that I can learn to fly freely and happily too?” If a part of you is indeed curious and you want to look into it some more... take a deep breath, spread your arms, start moving and say ‘VROEEM’ as the first steps as a Bright Star Pilot who is making conscious Energetic Sound Transactions. It may feel wobbly at first, but you can rest at any time you like. If you practise making Energetic Sound Transactions every day, for the amount of time you like, you will increase your abilities to fly in freedom and play and have fun with it on any desired occasion. The adventurous flights you perform in this world will be more and more enchanting and other people will be pleased to watch it, or will even join you in being a Bright Star Pilot. Being a Bright Star Pilot, making Energetic Sound Transactions, pays off in joy and happiness, wherever you decide to go. Would you like to play with the tools a Bright Star Pilot uses, every day?
The tools a Bright Star Pilot seriously plays with
Making Energetic Transactions always involves investing time and energy.
Making Sound Energetic Transactions always involves making a proper clear connection between two (or more) parties and making satisfying enjoyable arrangements on sharing the resources ‘ time and energy’.
Every person has a set of tools available to use, helpful ( when used wisely obviously) to help sorting out the transactions: to open up streams of energy and also to keep the energy flowing.
Tools you can use are for instance: your imagination, your intuition, wonderment, courage, playfulness and understanding.
The Bright Star Pilot has a preference to use every day the tool of ‘ Play’ . According to the Bright Star Pilot: “Playing is a great way to find out how flying works.” He knows that all it takes is playfulness. There are two important approaches you might like to use too:
Land the damn thing
The flight simulator
Playful suggestion 1: land the damn thing
A Bright Star Pilot uses ‘ land the damn thing’ in situations where the process of flying isn’t fun anymore and the fear of ‘ crashing’ is taking over. It is in those situations where the Pilot is basically loosing site of the fact that he is ‘playing’ with flying which is supposed to be ‘fun’ and challenging! Signals of that are things like:
Feeling frustrated, about events that occur or his own abilities to deal with them
Feeling scared that things will go terribly wrong
At the same time feeling very much personally responsible for a good outcome.
In acknowledging that these are ‘ just’ signals that he is making Energetic Unsound Transactions, he can take the controls back by ‘ doing something else’ . In this case, by executing the smallest step into the desired direction: end the seriously scary flight in a safe way using his abilities as a playful Bright Star Pilot. He engages in this Energetic Sound Transaction: He says and means:” I want to have fun playing with my aircraft. It isn’t fun anymore, so I choose to land the damn plane now.” He then literally puts into action what he says and means by actually spreading his wings ( arms), runs a few meter, starting very fast and slowing down to ‘ landing speed’ , feel his feet safely on the ground and he taxies slowly to the hangar. Once the aircraft has landed, he has completed an Energetic Sound Transaction, acting upon the signals, taking full playful control and responsibility for being safe on the ground. That pays back in feeling happy and confident and gives breathing space to decide on the details of a new flight.. playing with making new Energetic Sound Transactions.
Playful 2: The flight simulator Some of those frustration, scary flights do end up in an emotional nosedive when he rapidly sees the ground getting closer and closer and he feels powerless to do something about it. He finds himself looking at the flashing red lights indicating that something needs attention and just continues doing what he was doing, getting more and more afraid that he is going to crash. Sometimes that’s the point where he wants to give up flying totally, because he only sees the frustration and his inability to fly properly. ‘Everything goes wrong and I am useless dealing with it’ is probably the main thought. If this is what the Pilot says, means and acts upon by letting go of the controls.... the outcome of this Energetic Transactions is something that feels like a crash n a cornfield. But when the Bright Star Pilot notices that he is still alive and in one piece, he can decide how to label this event. If he labels it as a ‘ bad experience’ that happened to him, leaving him devastated and he means that..... that is how it gets registered in his system. However, if he labels it as a ‘ good learning experience’ , a very educational flight in a Flight Simulator, that enables him to be an even better Bright Star Pilot.. he opens energetically the door to learn from it.. and as a result of the Energetic Sound Transaction: I say, mean and act upon this:” I am a Bright Star Pilot, I love to play with flying, because it challenges my abilities to get better in it every day. And I chose to have fun doing that!” Seeing the experience as a flight in a Flight Simulator, brings the humour and fun back and the playful element of learning. And why not? No real airplane got damaged. OK, he may have had the desire to stay in the air and the muscle aches and feelings of disappointments are telling him that he has ‘ crashed’ . (Aren’t those modern Flight Simulators amazing?) But heeeh, he got out of it alive, no scratch to his body and he can play back the whole flight in his mind and see where, in hindsight, he could have done something different! He can chose to hop in again, engage in the same Energetic Transaction sequence and actually make the change he came up with in hindsight... see what happens...! Play with it, have fun with it and learn to fly, meanwhile .